Miss U.....

I was just thinking - oh mine, I got no inspiration for an entry here lately. BING! Someone sent me a msg - "Miss U". Ummm..............I have been recieving such msg lately quite a bit. Not to brag, but I am abit ambivalent about it. I like to hear it, but I dont want to respond it like when I was younger. I dont know when a man says it, what does he expect to hear?!?!

And the thing is....after so much experience, a woman can never ask a man if he misses her, but a man is allowed. Believe me, when you start asking this Q, the man will find U annoying. haha....it's weird, but I have adapted to it now, and believe it's for my own good. Esp, women, if a man asks u if U miss him or not, it's just a polite way for him to say - He freaking misses u. :)

Mr Zagoor quoted Aristotle that when a man says in that second, he just means what he says. He was trying to say that when a man says something, it had no other meaning; however a woman isnt. haha. Well, I hereby refuted his quotes by telling him that, indeed, a man says A this second he means it. But he's allowed to change his mind to B in 5 sec, he always means it, but B is already very different from A. Believe me, I observe this far too long, when men change their minds, they are very honest and really mean it that moment - very singlemindedly. Only one straight line. However, men need to understand that, women are just adapted multi-dimensional. We recieve A this second, we think to ourselves, OK, we accept it.....then 5 sec later, B.....ummm.....OK. well, so we get confused in our head and after milenia, we have developed a mechanism always then ask men......so does it have any other underlining meaning behind it? We couldnt help to adapt & develop this reflect just to reduce our confusion. Women are highly adaptative. I am not sure if someone has done any research on it, I believe if we throw a man & a woman to an earth-life outerspace planet, I believe a woman could have higher chance to survive. It's not like the hollywood movie that men would rise to the occassion to save the mass.

hehe, I am not skeptical, maybe I am. But I just luv to refute or redefine some sayings.....truth is always truth, but interpretation could be wrong. :)