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Tuesday, 27 July 2021

Not everything has a reason

 People like to say everything happens for a reason! I am so tired hearing it, as I dont buy it anymore. Not everything happens for a reason. 

errr...so what I want to say here, nothing haha. it's my dairy so I say what I want to say here. I am tired to hear that my bad shit experience or good shit experience or the drama encounters happen for a reason. It's so cliche - one statement, so anti-climax...so easy.....which I dont see why I need to toil and feel pain just to know everything happens for a reason

If people got nothing to say, dont speak - we breath in air, we dont need to say to others Oh You are breathing in air. 

I hate those phrases - be positive! everything happens for a reason! RIP! 

What the fuck? Only people who never go through real shits say shits like these

vent out, thanks

Monday, 6 February 2012

when do bad things

dont do it bad
but do it right....I LIKEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

be the good bad....hahahahaha

how shameful when u r bad in bad. :D

Sunday, 26 June 2011

If U already have had some of the worst moments in 2011, listen....

I have a thought.

Some of us have been discussing, what the HECK is going on in the universe in 2011????

We started off all joyly for the beginning of the year, we cheered. Some of us even exchanged secret happy emails, as we knew that something GREAT was going to happy. And we thought THERE WERE. We were excitedly waiting for the moment, the reward, the news, we were so SURE it would come....

Then, a day, a week, a month, months gone by, we felt shadowed by the gripping fear that our "excitement" was merely a false alarm. We honestly felt very upset and angry. At least I was very very very mad. At somewhat, along the way, we lost a bit of our faith, our optimism.

But my thought is.
I think, some of us have been put into the wheel of test. I dont always believe u need to go through pain before u learn to appreciate something. Actually, some of my frenz know how to appreciate things & gestures & blessings. However, I think and I feel strongly,

The rest of our 2011 is gonna be great. Not becoz of the sufferings, just simply becoz DA ME SAYS SO!

I cannot lie to you that I am sometimes feeling somewhat shaky in my path, yet, I feel inside a voice telling me I and my frenz will be OK.

For those who think 2012 would have some kind of transformation (Mayan thing) - I think to me, it's going to be hopeful, and we, my frenz & I, in our own little way agree - we can go pass that time with flying color, as we are so aware things r actually happening to us. Somewhat to test our faith, maybe; or to train our perserverance.

I hope U will find this light of hope, believing that tmr is INDEED a better day.

My real bday wish is - I want all my frenz & family finding the happiness in them, in their life by letting the universe show its own magical way.

Thursday, 23 June 2011

Thanksgiving for the Food

Thanks for the sea giving us rain
Thanks for the rain showing us the stream of rivers
Thanks for the river directing us to the earth
Thanks for the earth reflecting the sun
Thanks for the sun leading us to the moon
Thanks for the moon sprouting the seeds
Thanks for the seeds letting us know the winds
Thanks for the winds giving us the hope of Food
Thanks for the food making the miracles known
and hence we the living thing could have a soul

Friday, 11 March 2011

We are so TINY.

Daily, how many times we complain about this or that around us?! Shitty traffic, horrible passerby........imagine tsunami hit u rite at the moment you were swearing someone. Not worth it. This is not a reflective entry.

I am thinking some of us are so interested in the 2012 Mayan calender, and I am sure this quake is going to spiral to all these spiritual enlightening again. I am excited to see the day of 21Dec2012 too, but I guess we should just live our lives. We are tiny anyways, why do we need to get tinier?

http://edition.cnn.com/2011/WORLD/asiapcf/03/11/japan.quake/index.html

Thursday, 6 January 2011

Scars

Don't complain because our scars are our medals. But hit back whenever it's possible, because we are not saints.
 I havnt really read or finished one of his books, it's always halfway. But I really like his quote. As I conclude my past 2 years venture, I realize that I am left with alot of wounds/scars.....whatever you name it. But I am not dismayed at all, for those who did talk with me recently (very few, one or 2 frenz) - I am so proud of myself for very one thing - is that I didnt complain about my fate. 
If you know abit about wounds & scar - lets say you keep hurting yourself your body will heal itself over & over. However, you will leave with scar tissues which are pretty rough skin. I always thought about it when I was in my early 20's, as I went to church. There's a song called -----shit, I forgot, but somehow the lyrics goes - asking God to soften our hearts (oh, wait, was it in a prayer? :P). I remember ie usually in my mind all the time, as my heart was pretty hardened (though on another face of my heart, it was bloody soft, dripping with blood). 
 As for now, I am in H&B business. Few buzz words always intrigue me. Inflammation, Infection, De-pigmentation, de-scar, anti-ageing................do you know that they are all inter-linked? keke, I cant tell you why as they are my medals to make money!

Monday, 3 January 2011

2011: Manual for conserving paths

By Paul Coelho.

1] The path begins with a crossroads. There you can stop and think what direction to follow. But don’t spend too much time thinking or you’ll never leave the spot. Reflect a lot on the choices that lie ahead, but once you have taken the first step, forget the crossroads for ever or else you will always torture yourself with the useless question: “did I take the right path?”

2] The path doesn’t last for ever. It is a blessing to travel the path for some time, but one day it will come to an end, so always be prepared to take leave of it at any moment. However enraptured you may be at certain landscapes, or scared whenever you have to make a great effort to go ahead, don’t get too used to anything. Neither to the hours of euphoria, nor to the endless days when everything seems so difficult and progress is so slow. Don’t forget that sooner or later an angel will appear and your journey will reach an end.

3] Honor your path. It was your choice, your decision, and just as you respect the ground you step on, that ground will respect your feet. Always do what is best to conserve and keep your path and it will do the same for you.

4] Be well equipped. Carry a small rake, a spade, a penknife. Understand that penknives are no use for dry leaves, and rakes are useless for herbs that are deep-rooted. Know also what tool to use at each moment. And take care of them, because they are your best allies.

5] The path goes forward and backward. At times you have to go back because something was lost, or else a message to be delivered was forgotten in your pocket. A well tended path enables you to go back without any great problems.

6] Take care of the path before you take care of what is around you. Attention and concentration are fundamental. Don’t be distracted by the dry leaves at the edges or by the way that others are looking after their paths. Use your energy to tend and conserve the ground that accepts your steps.

7] Be patient. Sometimes the same tasks have to be repeated, like tearing up weeds or closing holes that appear after unexpected rain. Don’t let that annoy you – that is part of the journey. Even though you are tired, even though certain tasks are repeated so often, be patient.

8] Paths cross. People can tell what the weather is like. Listen to advice, and make your own decisions. You alone are responsible for the path that was entrusted to you.

9] Nature follows its own rules. In this way, you have to be prepared for sudden changes in the fall, slippery ice in winter, the temptations of flowers in spring, thirst and showers in the summer. Make the most of each of these seasons, and don’t complain about their characteristics.

10] Make your path a mirror of yourself. By no means let yourself be influenced by the way that others care for their paths. You have your soul to listen to, and the birds to tell what your soul is saying. Let your stories be beautiful and pleasant to everything around you. Above all, let the stories that your soul tells during the journey be echoed at each and every second of the path.

11] Love your path. Without this, nothing makes any sense.

Sunday, 2 January 2011

Huge Virus

It's roaming around the city. Everyone is sick. At least people around me. 4 out of 7 within my family are sick. I am sick of coz. I slept for > 30 hrs just on Xmas & Boxing Day - it's a gift to me though, haha, as I usually didnt get to sleep so much in one go.

So pls beware!!!!! Stay Healthy & Fit.

Take Care, My friends!!

Saturday, 25 December 2010

Stone & Water

hehe....see if you like my philosophy.

I was communicating with my aunt (the aunt who's an artist & poet) via emails. We were talking about mis-match between couples.

Actually, I dont believe in true match as it's just impossible. I am a fairy tale gal, I like fairy tales still. I believe in fairies & angels, of coz demons & witches too.Yet, finding a soulmate or the one =/= match. We cant become gel anyways. We are still 2 individulas, living in one own body & die alone one fine day. However, I was telling her that, if the man is a stone, then the woman could be water, it would already be nice. As the water polishes the stone, while the stone mineralizes the water, despite they can never gel - maybe till the end of time, everything vampourizes in the fury of a nuclear bomb. haha............

Anyways, find your stone or water in your life. :D

Thursday, 18 November 2010

Doctor WHO?

Lately, I am spending my time with british dramas ONLY. Well, I do watch vampire diaries (they are getting kinkily fun), dexter (hot blood luver) & fringe ( I hated the previous seasons but now they are hitting the alternate universe- my luvvv, I luv the concept of time travel, alternate universe).

BINGO! This is what Doctor Who is all about. TIME TRAVEL, OUTERSPACEY, Alternate universe, the space gap................gosh, I cant get enough!!!! Then I watched Sherlock which are the modernalized rewritten version - so sarcastically dark humour, my another luv. Now I am moving on Torchwood, dont think I would get mesmerized by the Captain Jack, but then.........................I need more british accents around me.

Oh, the main reason?! I met a very nice gentle british guy - I seriously never met any nice brits. Just a fren, nothing romantic. Taking him on as a nice cosy fren is a gift to me now. hehe, I luv the accent. :P

Wednesday, 10 November 2010

desperate housewives epi 7 S7

Totally talking about me
thou I am no desperate, I am no housewife

I always luv the writers of desperate housewives' plot on summarizing each epi....thou I dont particularly like the whole story in general

Tuesday, 21 September 2010

I would faint if

I got caught at below scenario.......dont they have a dresser guy to help them fix their pbs??

Nipple - flowery Pattern

Wednesday, 15 September 2010

FUCKING idiotic S-Company

EVERY FUCKING TIME!!! JUST EVERY FUCKING TIME!!!!!! 

EVERY FUCKING SHIPPMENT, ALWAYS HAVE EVERY FUCKING DETAILS MISSED, or LOST, or DELAYED - ALWAYS BLAMED BLAMED BLAMED.

ALWAYS MONEY MONEY MONEY. CAN YOU PLS BE LESS MAH LUN FENG, then U R OK LOR!!!!! DIU!!!! YOU SO MAH LENG FENG making ME ALWAYS FUCKING MA Q HEADACHE!!! DIU!!!! ALOTTA MONEY FOR ME MER!!?? JUST NOT ONCE, NEVER ONCE, YOU CAN MAKE ONE FUCKING ORDER GO SMOOTHLY. FUCKING U BUNCH OF ASSHOLES GO TO HELL LA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pewh, thanks guyz.

Saturday, 11 September 2010

Another Level of EQ

Working in a job, you need EQ.
Having a business, you need another level of EQ.

A job, you got stable income. There's no gambling in it that pisses you off or disappoints you. You got a monthly stable income, downside is you may need to watch out the faces of your boss.

A business doesnt guarentee a stable income. It's a game of gambling - you may make alot or you lose it all. Actually losing it all is better than piling up the debts. You need to get prepared the hightened EQ to handle your clients, your clients' staff, your suppliers, your partner, maybe your staff as well.......even they are cunny & nasty, you need to learn to stay silent at the right time & slash out at the right time, too. Learn to smile, but devise a plan to revenge or take back what they have taken you - during this time you need to make nice to avoid your plan flop. Even there's no revenge involved, you gotta think if they are going to trash your next move, afterall you once trusted them. The EQ to handle every aspect is overwhelming alone, but that's what I am facing now.

Yet, I so realize my EQ has come to a stage that I couldnt imagine I could possess. I mean, I wasnt born a positive, emotionless person!

And I am not losing hope on partnership too. Just that, I gotta be careful with who I partner with in the future.

Monday, 6 September 2010

Ranking

As I am glancing through my blog entry categories, I realize I have my own ranking.

Me of coz is always Number One. Then it's about people. Then, Movie. Then dogs.

Luv is really minimal, guess it suits me. I am not a very luving person, thou I am compassionate. I dont regard this as top priority of my life, thou in the past I used to think it was. I am constantly amazed at how life, experience has refined me to who I am now.

if you are talking about in luv, I feel I am so in luv with my dogs. Esp lottie now, she always luvingly gazes at me, like she couldnt keep her eyes off me. This kinda of luv constantly makes me smile & happy.

Tuesday, 24 August 2010

Another Horrible News of HK

I am sure you are feeling really angry & sad for the hostages that were kept at a tour bus in Manila last night. WHo knows! It's their last day of the trip. It was meant to be? It was fate?

I say it was SHIT.

Honestly, I have never been fond of philippinos. One of them even not just seduced my late grand-dad, I believe she even took his money. Anyways, men frail, fial at old age, no big biggie. Now, I will dislike them more. I know it's super childish, but this is what I have to do.

I hope the families and people who stay alive keep strong, though honestly who can? Easy to say it, isnt it? I put myself in their shoes - it's just impossible. I just hope they allow themselves time to heal.

Friday, 30 July 2010

More "leftover" Women than MEN

http://hk.dv.nextmedia.com/template/dv_channel/index.php?fuseaction=dv15.player&mode=section&id=all&range=d&dv_iss=20100730&sec_id=4104&art_id=14293438&av_id=14293763

It's such a boring news but again it says there are more LEFTOVER women than men!

What does it imply? 18K men go to China to get married - coz we women are more educated?! Another debate.

But this kinda news threatens women. I dont like it. So more women just pick anyone to get married. All I see is vicious cycle. Anyhows.

In my next life, if I have a choice, I still want to become a woman. As in the view of progress, development & vision-forward, I see women going to rule the world soon (hey, I didnt say this. My ex ex ex said that!!! I always find him to be one of the most intelligent in HK......hahahahahah)

Monday, 26 July 2010

SHITTY HK news!!!!!!

I browse movies! TV!
But I also like to read things that are paranormal - UFO, ET.

OK, I read from yahoo news today (TODAY!!!) regarding a UFO sighting in early 8th JULY in China, IN CHINAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. People were already posting thread about this all over in US..........shit, HK is just a arm-length away from our motherland. How on earth, newspaper reported it ONLY now!!?? I know HK is generally culturally/intellectually numb, BUT it's UFO - doesnt it deserve abit more ATTENTION?


STUPID Hongkie! Including me!

(C) http://hk.news.yahoo.com/article/100725/4/jcdo.html
(E) http://en.ce.cn/National/Local/201007/08/t20100708_21593914.shtml
(E) http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/5572398/china_reverses_itself_on_ufo_that_disrupted.html?cat=15
(E) http://www.abovetopsecret.com/forum/thread591466/pg1

Wednesday, 21 July 2010

Getting ready for 21Dec2012

I always want to tell people, it may not be that day, but who cares?! Kinda signify the "end time" or "renewal time"! I re-watch the documentary of 2012. I wont dwell much on that yet today, but I believe somehow near somewhere around that time, our modern world may be affected by....possibly solar flares?! Anyways, somewhere I read that there would be times of darkness, so basically - it means things such as electricty, telecommunication (satalite of coz all fire-up la) - would be gone. Dont even think too much about towngas, my friend. Everything even the town gas , water providers provide utlity by electricity.

My suggestion of preparation, even so jokingly said, still may not be uesless:

1. GET stock up on candels. Ie what I am doing, but mainly nicely scented ones. I am stocking one bit by bit and I encourage people giving me presents of candels too. Think about it, if they have nice smells, even lo and behold this thing is a hoax, you still can make good use of the nice smell.

2. Can food and can opener. Forget about cup noodles or instant noodles. U dont have fire, how to open a fire to boil some water! Unless you have the independant gas cooker with many spare gas cans. That may not be a bad idea. Let me invest one some day. It's good for hotpot anyways!

3. Water. Alot of Water. or just wine bottles. Forget about beers, they taste horrible if they are not chilled. Remember, you wont have a fridge when you got no electricity!

4. Try to move to a house or lower level apartment. No electricity means no elevator.

5. Buy a dove and train it. So they can deliver your msg to your family & frenz. No mobile commincation, forget about texting!


Then of coz, some of us already have dates on that night to party outside, together with our dogs!!!!! Feel Free to Come Along. Venue, TBC.