Anyways, what sparked me to write this is a bday comment from a long ago big brother figure I knew him back in Melb, if he didnt remind me (few times) that he still had the bookmark I gave him, I wouldnt remember "that period of me". I always sent very encouraging msg or I should say msg to people viz bookmarks. I had many - I would write some heart-felt msg maybe from my own inspiration or from the bible and give to people. I never really cared if people would keep it, as I then already understood human behavior, they never indeed appreciated sentiment, I still did it, coz it was from me, I wanted to bless the world, I wanted to bless people. I thought I had superpower. hehe.
He said I was still geekie at heart on FB, didnt change. As a matter of fact, he's so right. I really havent changed much. Actually I used to hate this geekiness of me becoz it's so abnormal. Now, I start to appreciate it more. Not that I draw more attention but I feel at ease being "geekie", you know. And I have learnt to keep this geekiness more at bay, not to the whole wide world, as I have learnt through life, to change the world doesnt mean you have to do it to the whole world. If I could influence one person once in a while, in turn this person smiles more or says something nicer to maybe another few people, then the world is better than it already 'was".
And of coz I remember, many times I would go over to his place which was very close to where I lived, which he shared with another dude or 2 (all christians, I think) - I would sleep on his bed demanding attention. haha....I think I would talk non-stop (actually I couldnt remember what I would say). Guess I never had a bigger brother or sister, I really wished I had one ie like him, so sweet & always played with me.....or just kinda spoilt me. Actually, I really looked like a geek with ugly glasses, poor fashion sense, fat....but very adorable....kakakaka...........(unlike me now, so pretty & sophisticated, hehe). Of coz he would know that I had a secret crush on him. hehe....And I gotta say, he was the very first person who lavished me with many spoiling moments, but then he dated some senior gal. I couldnt recall if I was very upset, guess I should, but then it was so familiar that I just didnt bother much...(I think? He needs to confirm it, haha coz I simply couldnt remember). I didnt have many men (maybe 2-3 max) spoling me as I was always so....how to say as others say - TOUGHIE. But when he put it on FB that I should be spoilt BADLY, yea yea.....I find my light. haha
He said I was still geekie at heart on FB, didnt change. As a matter of fact, he's so right. I really havent changed much. Actually I used to hate this geekiness of me becoz it's so abnormal. Now, I start to appreciate it more. Not that I draw more attention but I feel at ease being "geekie", you know. And I have learnt to keep this geekiness more at bay, not to the whole wide world, as I have learnt through life, to change the world doesnt mean you have to do it to the whole world. If I could influence one person once in a while, in turn this person smiles more or says something nicer to maybe another few people, then the world is better than it already 'was".
And of coz I remember, many times I would go over to his place which was very close to where I lived, which he shared with another dude or 2 (all christians, I think) - I would sleep on his bed demanding attention. haha....I think I would talk non-stop (actually I couldnt remember what I would say). Guess I never had a bigger brother or sister, I really wished I had one ie like him, so sweet & always played with me.....or just kinda spoilt me. Actually, I really looked like a geek with ugly glasses, poor fashion sense, fat....but very adorable....kakakaka...........(unlike me now, so pretty & sophisticated, hehe). Of coz he would know that I had a secret crush on him. hehe....And I gotta say, he was the very first person who lavished me with many spoiling moments, but then he dated some senior gal. I couldnt recall if I was very upset, guess I should, but then it was so familiar that I just didnt bother much...(I think? He needs to confirm it, haha coz I simply couldnt remember). I didnt have many men (maybe 2-3 max) spoling me as I was always so....how to say as others say - TOUGHIE. But when he put it on FB that I should be spoilt BADLY, yea yea.....I find my light. haha
Actually, nowadays, my frens be it men or women spoil me too. I am very touched in many ways. Spoiling is good, it makes one feel so special, in turn I spoil my frenz with attention, if got enough money, maybe presents. Actually in my mind, I always know what I want to spoil my frenz with....wait till I become successful, U will be lavished!
Anyhow.......I gotta say, despite all that I have been through, life has more meaning at this moment, at this day. Though, I am not doing anything different, actually I feel very sleepy right now, I dont do the normal bday thing, I am alone, etc etc......pretty much the same as everyday......I feel so delighted that someone has kept my bookmark. Something just small, yet, now it touches my heart back. :)
Anyhow.......I gotta say, despite all that I have been through, life has more meaning at this moment, at this day. Though, I am not doing anything different, actually I feel very sleepy right now, I dont do the normal bday thing, I am alone, etc etc......pretty much the same as everyday......I feel so delighted that someone has kept my bookmark. Something just small, yet, now it touches my heart back. :)
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