Art of Being Discreet

I got a call at 11pm, a woman voice started "jagging", I thought there was a big problem that occurred. Sigh, again, it's gossip. Not trying undermine her feeling, I could only tell her whatever she said with me ended with me too. What does she expect?

I sometimes find people will tell me stuff, not coz I am purely a good listener, but they try to probe me if I know anything else. Sorry, this thought isnt pure, but I am very sensitive how a person phrase a conversation. That's why I am always one on one with frenz, I dont like to cluster in a group. I get really turned off that I have to deal with each individual emotional issues, while I have to listen to their gossips about one another. I am too old, or they should think they are old enough to be OK to live without such a bunch of frenz, if their past time is to gossip each other.

Well, my topic isnt even talking about frenz. haha, but it derives from there. I think.....funny....really.....in my eyes majority of people are very dumb, incl me of coz. We thought we mastered the art of being discreet. Yet, to be frank, I dont see many who excel at it. I would say I am OK, but not good enough. However, I gotta say, my closest frenz would indeed tell me stuff that shouldnt be known by others, I enjoy this confidence - but if they start to spread other's little secrets around, then it's not even funny, it's super moron behaviour.

I know many men like to talk to me, I guess, coz they know I am  very absent-minded, or open-minded, or non-calculative person with a sense of what it means to be discreet. I dont esp over-react or get over-sensitive of what they have to say. Usually, I tell them off right at their face that they shouldnt do certain things, but then I accept who they are and what they do. Does it really matter that you are right & they are wrong? Does it matter that they are a sinner & you are a saint? Why judge?

Actually, people who tend to judge couldnt be discreet. Remember this my frenz. Stay away from judgemental people, as your little secrets could never been kept, or never attempt to have any rendezvous with such people if you want to be discreet. TRUST ME.

I should change this title to dont gossip instead, but actually I like to gossip about pple that I dont like, haha. Anyhow, it's not a very relevant or intelligent entry, but I will ponder on this topic and hopefully I could come out with something astronomically orgasmically inspiring. :)