As usual....my mind is flying all over. I am not sure if I mentioned before....one day during shower, I felt I was walking away from my goals, then I asked myself if I ever got any goalz. Guess I talked about yearly goal concept sucked in previous entry. And frankly - I got no yearly goal, as time flies too fast, I hvnt got the breath to review last yr, how could I fix some goalz!?!?!?!
Anyways, my mind lately is all about work, all about how to beautify myself. I hvnt got the finance or mood to make myself look better, and now....I need. And hence I must go jogging & swimming so I could fit into my outfits again. My outfits of 10 yrs back, which r still so chic....and I feel amazed at my style....how cud I back then understand fashion!? When I could tell u......20-30 yrs ago, I sucked big time in fashion!!! Guess I am just way too intuitive....and I am never afraid to look stupid....
That comes to make me think....why pple cant be successful?! coz we r always so afraid to fail!?!?! Which great minds hvnt failed in their lifetime...!?!?! As a matter of facts, I think they r totally losers in order to be great one day...
U know what I mean!? Yet, some pple keep using the excuse to fail, to lose...coz they give up on themselves....I highly regard the word "experience", yet......experience isnt the core of things, understanding life /yourself is the experience of the journey. People who do hv great minds sometimes rely on experience.....its not right, to me!!! For me, I could say....from this experience I learn this n that....I give thanks to the torture or bliss, but do I need to go through that again!? Not neccessary.....I want new experiences, and also I learn the lessons and I have expanded n jumped to another level.
That always makes me think of enzyme......the chart whereby from one level jumping to another requiring enzymes....I always see myself jumping from one to another, how high, how far....at times depends on the will power and the catalysts.
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Interesting question "why do ppl fear failure..?"
ReplyDeleteI tend to think that only those who have nothing to lose will be fearless.. For example:
*Filthy rich - nothing to lose, right?
*Absolutely penniless - nothing to lose, right?
*Those with terminal disease - nothing to lose, right?
I'm sure the list goes on a bit...
But maybe, one can only truly be fearless (and have a better chance of success) if he / she is living on the boundaries / extremes??
Actually....sorry to say....I think most pple at your above are very afraid to lose...1. the filthy money for the filthy rich, 2. the one penny which the penniless has of his last remaining....3. the limited days the terminal ill has.....
ReplyDeleteWhy we think they have nothing to lose? Coz we are more daring compared to them....and also, of coz it's movies....movies depict these pple fearless, but try to tap into their heads, they r more afraid (of coz with few exceptional...my thinking laaaa)
Then your next Q.....interestingly...boundaries/extremes....honestly, these 2 cant exist without one another, pple think freedom means no boundaries....yet,wo boundaries, there's no need to talk about freedom, ie no freedom.....without extremes, we wont understand what's boundary!!!
hehe....goodddddddddddddd BRUCE!!
I think you're right~ (^^) To have no boundaries as the boundary~ haha (^^)
ReplyDeleteOR, to have all boundaries as no boundaries.....ahhahahaha
ReplyDeleteAmazing...
ReplyDeleteHave you been taking that pill from the movie "Limitless"...? (^^)
i always want to take.....:D
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