galz

Well, I wanted to write about one kinda uptight galz but then I was so caught up with phone calls, I havnt started it. My god, staying in bed for 2 days made me work like nuts today...........I should thank the universe for offering so much things to gnaw on. Luv the word "gnaw" - so nasty & wicked!!!!!

1. Uptight galz

O well, I introduced this fren to a gang. I casually asked, since she has been looking for bf, if she liked anyone. She kinda "told me off" tone saying it's her affair. Hey, lighten up bitch! Was thinking if I would need to help you out. And maybe I wouldnt steal him.............lol

gosh, what's wrong with women??????>?>?????????????

Just say NO one lor if dont want anyone to know.....................DIU!

DENIAL is the BEST MEDICINE.

2. SWEET galz

I came up a phrase becoz from observing a genuine sweet gal. She's a selfless person. Really, I havnt seen more selfless person ever.  For her crazy boss, for her family, for her friends, for me........etc. Everyone has an agenda, honestly I constantly have an agenda esp now I am so on my own, also, I have learnt the value of being with myself. However, with her, I just told her - she couldnt be like this. One thing ie very important, being selfless doesnt mean you luv the world. I feel being selfless means you dont luv yourself enough. 

And 

NO ONE SHOULD LUV YOU MORE THAN YOU YOUSELF!!! 

Being sweet, giving in dont mean you could save the world. No No. You need to save yourself first, ie everyone's own responsibility, not someone's elses. However, for some it's very difficult as it's how one has been educated, brought up. It's totally nothing wrong for galz or even guyz like her occasionally ask "WHAT ABOUT ME!!??" "WHY ME?!" to show protest!

Not for you guyz, just for them exclusively!!! :) dont be rascal, my dears.

I hope they would one day learn the beauty of luving themselves. It is a hard process. Not easy, seriously. I hope they would think about themselves how to make their face less dry, how to make their spine less strained, how they could enjoy a good meal FOR themselves once in a while, how they would travel to places that they actually want to go, despite it's a stupid place, but not go to stupid places for someone else.

Luv U my sweet babygal, just dont ever do it again. Luv yourself first then you will have strength to "safeguard" others, not SAVE but safeguard. okok? xoxo