I tried to call, sms, email to a friend for past month but she never called back, which is unlike her as she's a pretty tough & responsible lady. Then, finally I managed to get her respond on msn - sighhhhhh...........she's talking about separation with her husband. I am not sure about the real reason, but seems that she doesnt want to have a child, but her husband insists.
It's saddening, rite? I guess they do luv each other, but due to personal preference, in this modern world, you cant stick together, as divorce is too easy! Sometimes, I think divorce is fine if you can no longer luv that person, but outta preferences, I think it's most saddening kind. I wonder being alpha male or female.....can you indeed make one relationship stick?! I doubt. I have no faith in it. Ie why......my frens said, "soften up, lady!", or "grow your hair long", or " lower your standard".................is it really that simple?
My parents. They are indeed separating after fucking decades together. Honestly, I wish they separated before I was born. (Oh if auntie Y you are reading it, pls keep it secret. I will explain in details next time I see you). Is the modern soceity making pple not stick or people become too modern to stick? Aiya, I dunno, which is not my concern nowadays......
Is it really that important (to me) to have a lifelong companion? Can I just have thousand of god-kids? So I wont be bored when I am old, since I believe they would luv me dearly even I become a grannie. hehe.
Sigh, just want to say......I feel sad & worried for my friend.
Sorry to hear about the bad news.
ReplyDeleteI do not want to pass judgment as it concerns others' private lives. And I obviously do not know what is the secret to making a relationship stick, given my track record. I just think it is sad that we'd like to think that our companion loves us, but little do we know how strong that love is until there is a choice to be made between us and something else, being put on a scale to weigh. It's disappointing to accept that there was love but it just wasn't strong enough. Still, life goes on, with or without love.
When you grow old, I'll be around to keep you company. I will keep exercising so that I will still be strong enough to "hang out" with you, i.e. going to the park to stare at birds.
Trust you can give your friend and your parents the support they need to believe they can still live well in their new life.
hahahaha, I will make sure my thousand of god-kids luv u too!!!! :))
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